This happened back in 2018 when dating apps are dominant. If you are familiar with Neargroup, which became Profoundly then you know what I am talking about. I matched with this cute working student na super daldal at sipag mag chat. Let’s call her Ella. She was 21 and I am on my late 20’s. Consistent sya sa chat and ginagawang rant dump yung chatroom namin. NG was integrated to FB that time pero pwede ka padin naman maging discreet kaya hindi naman sya mahirap itago. She was bragging about how her friends, classmatse craving for her and most compliment na natatanggap nya is ang lakas nga daw ng dating nya. I wasn’t really expecting anything kasi nga ang daming head over heels sa kanya according sa mga kwento nya.
“Yun pala eh, bat nasa NG ka, pang samin lang tong mga walang social life at tamad lumabas”… tanong ko habang pinag yayabang nya yung mga classmates nyang patay na patay sa kanya.
“Eh bakit ba, masama bang maghanap ng kausap? tsaka at least dito di ko kelangan makisama, i can be whoever i want”…sagot nya.
Napakanormal lang ng conversation namin and never ever ko nilagyan ng green jokes kase nga alam kong wala naman akong mapapala, mukang study first si Ella and wala talagang time for guys, let alone sex.
We talked for months na wala talagang malisya. Sometimes aabot ng weeks bago sya or ako makapag reply ulit. Wala kong ibang kausap non sa NG kase nga trabaho, bahay at tulog lang ako. Swerte na kung may free time for extra activities. Then one night, I got home from a birthday celeb na medyo tipsy, you know what alcholol does to the human body. Sobrang horny ko that time and talagang I was craving for sex, I sent her a message.
“Still up?”.. tanong ko
“Yeah, Acads, balita sayo?”.. reply nya after few minutes
M: Nakainom ng konti, san ka?
E: Dorm, why?
M: Wala lang, just want to talk. Nagka BF ka na ba? ..out of nowhere na tanong ko, i just want to start with something.
E: Okay? bat mo natanong?
M: Was wondering if you’ve done it before.
E: Oh, you mean sex?
Medyo na shock ako ng konti sa reply nya. It was blunt, walang paligoy ligoy as if alam na nya agad ang pakay ko. Well, never naman kase nakapag usap ng anything within that topic hence the gulat moment
M: Uhm yeah, walang preno a.
E: Haha, alam ko naman yang mga bagay na yan. And yes, nagka bf na ko and I have experience.
M: Nagulat lang ako.
E: Never mo naman natanong, pero nakakatuwa lang kase na consistent ka padin makipag usap saken kahit walang ganung topic.
M: Feeling ko kase dudungisan ko yung pagiging pure mo.
E: Bakit? Would you open up something like that ba kung ala…