I guess I’m entitled to sharing my real experience despite the username I present on this site.
Few points to clear out:
I did not steal any story. (What’s the point?)
I did have a different account. (But now terminated)
It’s entirely up to you to believe it or not. (Take it or Skip it)
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So, this story is about a guy I met online. He’s twice my age and divorced (which in this case I still didn’t know). He lives somewhere in Luzon and He’s a frequent traveller. He travels for work because his clinic is based in Luzon and Mindanao.
He was the one who chatted me first.
Him: Hello!
Me: Hey! What’s up!
Him: Kamusta ka?
Me: I’m good, thanks.
Him: Oh nice! Can I see you personally?
Me: Can I ask why?
Him: Baka naman pwede mo akong ipasyal sa city nyo?
Me: Walang mapapasyalan dito. Mabobored ka lang.
Him: Edi, kumain nalang tayo! Sure ako maraming masarap na restaurant dyan!
Me: Meron naman din pero pwede ko bang matanong bakit ako ang kinakausap mo? Wala ka bang ibang makausap dito sa app?
Him: I find you pleasing and ikaw lang sumasagot ng maayos. Umiinom ka ba?
Me: Oh okay! Di ako umiinom eh, mabobored ka lang na kasama ako.
Him: Kung ganon, samahan mo nalang ako.
And the conversation continues for days. He was very persistent in meeting me but I was like naaah – not really interested in him.
I don’t really know what changed but after weeks of eagerly inviting me to join him, I said yes!
Him: I’ll see you later. If I’m not mistaken 2hrs lang ang byahe from here to your city.
Me: Yeah! What do you want me to do in the next 2hrs? Wait for you? Akala ko maaga kang babyahe?
Him: I tried kaso may pasyente pa ako kanina eh.
Me: Oh right! Cge, I’ll wait for you nalang.
He was commuting from the other city to my city. He arrived around 9pm and I needed to pick him up at the terminal.
Him: I’m wearing a pink shirt.
Me: I’m wearing a black hoodie. Where are you? Baka maling exit ang dinaanan mo?
Him: Naglalakad pa ako pero nakikita na kita.
Me: Wow naman, sure ka talaga na ako?
Him: Oo, ikaw lang nasa gate eh!
And he was right, he already saw me. I was shocked when I saw him too – Tall, DadBod, Moreno.
Him: Hey! Finally! Totoo ka nga!
Me: haha what were you expecting?
Him: haha eto naman, biro lang. Akala ko maka-catfish ako pero you look exactly like your pictures.
Me: Same goes to you! So saan tayo?
Him: May alam ka bang hotel?
Me: Meron naman din. Di ka ba nagtitipid?
Him: haha bakit may ganong tanong?
Me: haha wala lang, baka kasi pagnag-refer ako ng mahal magulat ka. That’s why I asked.
Him: Good thinking! I like that. May budget naman, we can work with 3-5k.
Me: Okay.
I suggested places before we rode a PUB. When we onboarded, people were staring at us – age gap was quite obvious. Not to mention his hand on my lap.
Him: Let’s check-in first bago tayo magdinner.
Me: Okayyy.
With a minimal voice I answered. I was trying not to be obvious especially with the people around the bus.
We arrived at the hotel and ordered for food ‘coz I was hungry.
It was my first time with someone older than me – twice my age! But I was thrilled to be honest.
Food arrived but we barely touched it.
Him: Kain kana.
Me: Ikaw? Di ka ba kakain?
Him: Ikaw kakainin ko haha
Me: Ang bilis ahh haha
I was just muching, I was pretty nervous so I really lost appetite.
I sat on the corner of the bed the he started crawling.
Him: Bakit ang layo mo? Ang laki ng kama ang layo mo? Nag-aaway ba tayo?
Me: haha saan ba ako dapat? eh occupied mo ang buong kama?
Him: Lika nga dito! Ang cute-cute mo pala ahh
Me: haha
Him: Bakit natatawa ka? Totoo naman ahh
Me: haha sorry, kinakabahan lang ako
Our talked lasted for hours as I insisted. I told him we need to be comfortable with each other first before we snuggle.
I told him that he’s making me nervous and all. Making things exciting and scary at the same time.
Then, he started wrapping his arms around my waist.
Him: Di mo kailangan matakot sakin. Baka ako pa dapat mahiya sayo. Matagal na akong walang practice. Baka di kita ma-satisfy.
Me: Kung ganon, matulog nalang muna tayo? haha
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