Him: How did you lose your virginity?
Me: hehe obviously through sex!
Him: haha okay, pero kanino?
Me: oh haha to my 2nd bf.
Him: Kwento mo naman para magka-idea ako.
Me: haha mahabang kwento eh.
Him: hehe maghihintay ako, baka naman pwede mong isulat?
Me: isulat talaga?
Him: Oo, lagay mo sa FSS.
Me: hmmmmm? pag-isipan ko ahhh aside from it being a long story, medyo special din kasi sa akin kaya gusto ko kami lang maka-alala.
Him: oh tama din pala noh?
Me: yeahhh!
Him: pero incase magbago ang isip mo, inform mo ako pag na-publish mo na.
Me: sure! haha abangan mo nalang din.
This was requested last year by a reader whom I got the chance to talk to offline, but the person who requested this is no longer in contact with me. But if you are reading this, I dedicate this story to you!
Wel-CUM Home, Baby! is based on my 1st raw and real sex experience.
April 2014, I met a guy in a dating site. This was the first time I ever used a dating site.
I was in college when I decided to try it out. Out of innocence and curiosity, I created my own profile.
It was love at first sight (lol) they say when we officially became a couple – t’was a month after we started talking online.
Me: May tanong ako.
Him: ano yon?
Me: We’ve been talking for a month now, hindi ka ba na bobored na kausap ako?
Him: why would I be bored?
Me: haha wala lang, baka lang kasi.
Him: Actually, I like you!
Me: haha wag ka mambola!
Him: haha hindi kita binobola! sa lahat ng sinabi ko yan ang pinakatotoo!
Me: yeah right!
Him: Oo nga! I really like you! Sabihin na nilang corny but alam ko love at first sight ‘yon!
Me: haha wag mo nga akong pinaglololoko!
Him: haha hindi nga? Do you think I would stay up late to talk to you? Get excited when you respond to my messages? Or even look forward to seeing you?
Me: weh?
Him: Oo nga sabi haha trust me, please?
Me: I do trust you!
Him: Do you trust me enough to be your bf?
Me: haha
Him: tawanan ba naman ako.
Me: haha sorry na, kinikilig ako.
Him: haha ako din, so I need your answer.
Me: Yes?
Him: Yes? bakit may question mark?
Me: Di ako sigurado eh, malayo tayo sa isa’t-isa. How are we gonna make it work?
Him: Okay, I understand. If you’re fine with it, we can try this – the relationship.
Me: try lang talaga?
Him: yeah! If it works, it works. If not then we can continue with our lives.
Me: Okayyyyy!
Him: but I doubt, I really like you. Ayokong maging friends lang tayo.
Me: haha okay, so does this mean tayo na?
Him: if you say yes, then it’s a yes!
Me: hehe okay, yes!
This is where our 4year LDR started. He’s from Pasig and I’m from Butuan. A 3-day bus trip or 1.5-day boat ride or 45mins plane ride before we can meet each other. He was 25 that time and I was 18.
It took one year and a few cancelled trips before I officially saw him on May 20, 2015. His parents were a bit hesitant when he told them about his planned trip to my city. Ang nasa isip nila was Abu Sayaf, MNLF, MILF and kidnapping.
Him: Medyo hesitant si Tatay na pumunta ako d’yan.
Me: Bakit naman?
Him: Iniisip kasi nya yung mga nababasa nya sa balita.
Me: hahaha okay, tungkol sa kidnappings and all?
Him: Yes by.
Me: Sabihi…